10 Things That Make You Unattractive As A Lady
When it comes to beauty, it is important to acknowledge that the way you portray yourself regarding the decisions you make, your habits and mannerisms can all play a part in how attractive you appear to yourself and others.
Try to understand that your attitude and characteristics can affect your overall physical beauty, so you must take the time to improve these aspects of yourself.
How do you do this?
Here I’ve gathered 10 negative traits you should stop doing now to level up your life.
Let’s Dive In :)
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Forgetting The Power Of Gentle Grooming
Even though our appearance doesn’t exactly determine our intellect or the way we act on a day-to-day basis, it is still important to take care of our looks, as this gives a glimpse into who we are likely to be as a person.
Failing to take the time to properly clean and groom those small details that make up your overall appearance can lead others to perceive you as someone unattractive and not put-together.
Make sure that when you are attending to your looks, you are not neglecting these small but essential things, such as cleaning under your nails, making sure that there is no earwax on the visible part of your ears, and even making sure that your lips are never dry and chapped, but soft, moist and glossy :)
2. Neglecting Daily Hygiene & Freshness
Hygiene plays a significant part in attractiveness, so it's definitely crucial that you practise good hygiene in all aspects of your appearance, from the way you smell to the way you dress.
In addition to that, it is important that you find time to create an emergency kit. One that you can take wherever you go in case a sudden situation arises where you’ll need a few touch-ups to look and feel better.
3. Having Poor Posture Habits
Although you might find it extremely difficult to be as artful as a ballerina every single day, having good, artful posture can really add to your femininity and make you appear so much more attractive.
Posture is a simple and elegant way to exude confidence, one that doesn’t require speaking but still commands attention.
4. Stop Constantly Seeking Attention
When people you know or even strangers give you compliments and praise you, it indeed feels absolutely amazing. There is no reason for any of us to be ashamed of wanting that kind of love.
However,
Some require constant validation from others in almost everything they choose to do. They don’t feel good about what they have accomplished without getting praise or a pat on the back from another person.
Instead of seeking attention from others, choose to focus on yourself without needing to showcase your goals or accomplishments to an audience.
5. Allowing Insecurities To Shape Your Presence
We all feel insecure about certain things, whether that includes specific features on our bodies or certain skills that we wish were better.
But,
It’s important not let these things drastically affect your life or any decision you make that could slow your joy.
Your decision not to wear a bathing suit shouldn’t be because you have stretch marks on your cheeks.
Your decision to wear a heavy covering of foundation shouldn’t be because you want to hide the freckles on your face, etc…
I know that preventing your insecurities from taking centre stage is not something that can be done in a short period of time, but achieving this type of positive mentality is definitely possible.
6. Lack of Boundaries & Morals
Being adventurous and an open individual can be seen as an attractive trait to have, but the true beauty of this comes from knowing when you’ve had enough and recognising the line that you won’t step over.
A woman who can stand firm on her beliefs, seeks out things that do not align with her principles or vision of life, is a woman who walks with confidence and is unable to hide both her inner and outer beauty.
You knowing what you stand for, is also you knowing your self-worth, and others will be able to see this too and respect it also.
7. Constant Complaining
Ranting, letting it all out, and venting are effective ways to capture an audience. It’s a great way to find people who relate to what you’re saying, creating an interesting conversation
We all complain, but nothing is more unappealing than the person who has something negative to say day in and day out. To those who have to listen, it becomes draining. It then becomes an easy reason for people to slowly distance themselves from the complainer.
Not every moment requires critique, and often, moments require much more hope, inspiration and positive energy than the opposite.
Instead of hurting the brain with constant unproductive thoughts, dwell on the positive possibilities and offer grace in annoying circumstances.
This makes for an attractive person that others love to be around.
8. Taking No Action
There’s something so attractive about a person who commits to their plans, puts action to words, and is self-reliant.
It’s attractive because they don’t allow fear to keep them frozen or focus too much on perfectionism, which can keep them stuck.
Carrying through with your intentions is a very powerful and magnetic act: one that increases your attractiveness without overexplaining or desperately proving yourself.
9. Prolonging Unhealthy Eating Habits
The way we treat ourselves can affect the way we are treated by others.
Their disrespect is not always brutal or loud. Rather than blatant disrespect, you could just be constantly overlooked.
When we constantly choose convenience over care, it shows up emotionally, mentally and physically.
Your daily defaults, such as your sleep and hygiene is almost always negatively affected, thereby affecting your overall beauty.
10. Staying Glued To Your Phone
“While you watch those successful people living their lives, you’re sitting here wasting your life away.”
This is a statement I’ve heard my mother say to me multiple times.
As a teen, it was just an annoying passing comment, but now, as a young adult, you see the reality in those words.
It’s not about making every second of the day filled with productivity; it goes back to number 8, taking action.
Time doesn’t wait for anyone, so use it wisely.
Here Are Four More Things That Can Make You Unattractive
Having That Bad Attitude
Having No Sense Of Fashion
Being Bland! Not Having A Personality
Lacking Organisation Skills
Here’s a quote for you to take whilst you leave:
True beauty cannot be seen in the mirror :)
Well, That’s It Folks
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